Friday, September 7, 2012

Home Water Birth

I've never had a baby, at home or otherwise.

Whew. Glad I got that off my chest.


Anyway...

See..I may not ever have had a child of my own, but check out how awesome I am with other people's babies...

See how nicely I stuck my index finger in the poor munchkin's face? Yep. Nailed it. 


The fact that I don't have any children may seem like a fairly legitimate reason to disregard every single thing that I'm about to say - which, truth be told, wouldn't really wound me too deeply, I'd be ok.

I'm still going to say it though, and if it happens to help you in your personal birthing endeavors down the road, well then... booya.




That's all for now, hopefully this will help you out later on if you decide to go the home birth route!

And the post wouldn't be complete without a picture of the final product...



xo,

Rae

The Thing About Ankle Boots


Ankle boots, they’re scary.

 It’s a decapitated boot.  I feel like that speaks for itself, really.

Intimidating though they may be, they’re really a cute way to mix up the fall/winter legging and boot look.

Before you dive head first into stocking up on midget boots - give the look you're going for a bit of thought. 

Lets take this one, for example. 


                                                                                image credit: anouskaproettabrandon.com

The monochromatic outfit is broken up by the ankle boots which add some weight to the whole ensemble. This, coupled with wider shoulders on the leather jacket helps balance out the head to toe appearance. 

This is an example of ankle boots worn well. 

This, on the other hand... 

image credit: http://fashion.about.com

Not good, Phil. Not good at all.

Why, you ask? 

First issue: Proportions. The dress, as cute and boho as it may be, hits mid-calf. This would be fine if the shoes she paired it with were strappy heels or gladiator sandals. Alas, they are not. 

Ankle boots need to be worn in a balanced way, leaving a space of 5 to 7 inches between your hemline and boot is going to look funky no matter how you slice it. 

Second issue: The boots are black. Her dress is cream, orange, and brown. That's an issue, y'all. Even though she's apparently happy about it...it's a problem. 


These ankle boots work. The space between the top of the boot and the bottom of the pants is small enough to not be distracting when you take in the whole outfit. Also, they're just really cute. 

Basically, when you pull on a pair of ankle boots, stay balanced. 

Don't wear them with something that works against the flow of the outfit by making it busy and distracting. 

The goal is to have an overall look that is aesthetically pleasing and isn't difficult for the eyes to process. 

From what I can tell, when you put on shorter boots with an ill-placed hemline, instead of the outfit coming together as a whole - it becomes choppy and doesn't give the eyes an easy place to rest which leaves me with a vague impression that the outfit doesn't work.

 An easy fix for this is just to keep your bottom half simple, do leggings, skinnies or nothing at all if you're bold and trendy like that...

...I'm joking. Please wear pants. 

Make what you wear on your torso interesting and the outfit should come together just fine.  

Tumbler

See how she balanced the weight of the shoes with the top she paired with it? Well played. 


And again, balanced. 

Disclaimer: this isn't something I would ever wear. Sometimes I wonder if girls who wear mini dresses ever have awkward moments when they forget themselves and cross their legs, or run, or take long strides, or try to kick off assailants. 

Whatevs. 

Give ankle boots a chance and let me know how you like 'em! 

xoxo,

Rachael 









Thursday, September 6, 2012

Highlights For Blondies *DIY*

Highlights, for those of you who are interested in damaging your hair, for cheap!

I jest. Really though, if you give this a shot - less is more. I tended to pull more hair through the cap than necessary and ended up lifting my whole head of hair to a lighter color which sort of defeats the purpose of highlights. Just start slow!


Just as a reference point - this is one of the only relatively recent photos I could find of  my natural hair color, I'm recovering from a recent bout with hair color insanity and I had to chop it all off.

Naturally I'm sort of a dark blonde.



This is the color I ended up with after highlighting for a few months... 


Very light, I liked it for a while but it made growing my hair any longer pretty impossible. 

And lighter still, after a few more months of bleaching... 






Anyway, onward and upward! 



xoxo,

Rae

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Word To Your Mother

Name that song...?

Anyway...


Things in my brain today:


This is an example of not stepping on the thrift store floor. This is a good idea.

Thrift store floors are na-stee.


Pregnant women eat stuff like lemons.

 Log that away. 


Coffee is good. 


Strawberry Romanoff. It's amazing. 



This is my puppy, her name is Clove. 


This is Jake's first encounter with mussels. 


This is yummy. 


This is a disturbing groom's cake. 


This is Brad. 

Hey Brad! 



Love,

Rae 












Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Fall Thrifting

I have a favorite thrift store franchise... Park Avenue Thrift proves to have the lowest prices consistently and they offer coupons regularly. Wednesday is Senior Citizens day, which I don't qualify for but it still gives me a warm and gratified feeling to know that I'll have that option down the road. I think about these things...

Today I visited two different locations with some thrifting buddies and it proved to be very productive! 

Side note: Sentences like that last one make me vaguely uncomfortable...anything other than "I'm having a baby!" or "My house is on fire!" doesn't really seem to merit an exclamation point. On the flip side, ending the whole statement with a period seems anticlimactic and like I couldn't care less that I spent the day with some of my favorite people and found some neat things to boot... 

...

...

That seems like a fairly logical way to end a sentence. 

I had a great day...

I enjoy tofu... 

Just kidding, I hate tofu...

Tofu is probably my least favorite food second only to dried seaweed... 

I found some really awesome grandpa sweaters today...

That works. 

Fall Haul 

Bandage skirts: I've got a new favorite clothing item, I like these for a few reasons - the first one being that a bandage skirt is the perfect way to avoid awkward crotch in leggings.

I call it as I see it. 

I have two of these now, one black and one gray - each one ran me about $2.50 


Gray Express Bandage Skirt $2.50 >> Retail $49.90


Forgive the sad appearance of this sweater, these things don't typically look great on a hanger but it makes up for it by being really cute on. 

Thrift Price $4.00 >> Retail $20+ I don't recognize the brand...

Update: I just attempted to upload pictures of my other comfy sweaters to be paired with leggings and boots but I've reached the conclusion that it's far too depressing to see those sad things clinging to a hanger for dear life, just use your imagination and expect it in a fall edition OOTD. 


Forever 21 Blouse $4.00 >> Retail $22.90 


Wool Scarf, Thrift Price $2.00, I have not idea what the retail price is. 

None whatsoever.

Mr. Rogers might know? 



Nine West Leather Ankle Boots $13.00 >> Retail $75.00 

Lucky Brand Jeans, for Brad (no picture, he put them away and I'm not moving from my comfy spot to  track them down)

Thrift Price $6.49 >> Retail $90.00 

Perry Ellis V-Neck, for Brad - same story I told last time. 

Thrift Price $3.50 >> Retail $39.50 

Money Spent $40.99
Money Saved $297.30 

 I'll take that, 

Rae 














   


Monday, September 3, 2012

Personal Pinterest/My Fall Closet

If you don't have a Pinterest account yet, you should get one.

That being said, one thing that has tripped me up about Pinterest, in spite of all of its benefits - is that half the time when I pin an outfit I think is cute, I don't have anything even remotely similar in my closet. This leaves me in a bit of a dilemma because I'm left with a board full of lovely outfits that I can only envy and look at from a distance.

No bueno.

So, what do I do? First of all, it's great to pin random things that are just pretty to look at - but for the sake of making my life easier, I've started trying to stick to pinning things I already have the makings of in my closet.

That's where this idea started...


I have started creating a virtual closet for myself. It's a pin board of sorts, but it consists of absolutely nothing but what is in my closet.

This board takes the form of an album on my computer called "Outfits" and it's full of pictures like this... 


The idea was born out of the many awkward moments spent in semi-clad pile on the floor bemoaning my denuded state with my poor husband standing by waiting for me to get it together so we aren't late for the fifty millionth time to wherever we're going. 

Sunday mornings are the worst in that regard because the clothing issues are always coupled with a distinct awareness that it's the Lord's Day and I'm basically a heathen for worrying so much about my apparel. 

That whole thing is a work in progress.

Back on track...what I do is pull all of my clothes out of hiding, all the sweaters go in one stack, shirts in another stack, jeans, leggings and scarves have stacks of their own as well.

 I try to be organized but it's just not something I was given in my genetic makeup so my bedroom ends up looking like it got nailed with a howitzer. 

    At this point, I just start piecing together outfits using every possible combination of clothing to figure out what works and what doesn't. Every single outfit I put together gets its picture taken, not cute Pinterest photos... in most of them I'm only wearing one shoe and eventually (see: after I've changed 24 times) I'm not quite so precise in getting out wrinkles or tucking in shirts, regardless - I take a picture.

This is how my virtual closet or personal pin board is built, this is how I attempt to spare my husband the emotional breakdowns associated with not being able to find a decent outfit, this is a feeble attempt at sanity.

Behold:



Above is a lovely example of only having one shoe on, see how smoothly I just happen to place that foot outside of the camera's view? Another interesting fact...I'm not looking too closely, but I'm pretty sure my fly is down. 

Good talk, y'all.




^ You're allowed to try on different shoes in the same photo ^ 
It also helps to turn your toes in, makes it modelesque and trendy. 
You could also argue that it just looks ergonomically unsound.


Bare foot photo bomb. 

So when it's time to get ready to go somewhere, I mosey on over to my outfit album and scroll through my closet to figure out what to wear. Not nearly as messy as my other method and it works as a preventative measure against apparel related breakdowns. 

I make it sound like I get really emotional about clothes... I don't, really. I just get mildly uncomfortable when I start feeling like the Girl of the Limberlost, which I think is understandable.  

This outfit album isn't an earth-shattering idea, but it's something I never considered doing until recently and it has already been very helpful in getting me dressed and out the door faster and looking more put together. It's time consuming..at least it is for me, it would probably go faster if I were more organized, but even so it's well worth the time and energy. 

This method also helps me in figuring out what I don't need in my closet. When I've tried on 20 different outfits and haven't touched a pair of jeans I can pretty much bank on not wearing them. Out they go...pretty simple. 

Hope this is as helpful to you as it has been to me!

- Rachael